DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a hater or a homophobic or EXO’s inner thoughts.
Alright, first off, please read the disclaimer above. This post is going to be about the “rumours” I have been hearing from tumblr, other sites etc.
So, like everyone who is obsessed with kpop groups, you have a bias, or 2..or 3..or 149038284. Mine in EXO so happens to be Luhan and Kris. Luhan is such a sweete little cutie pie you can’t even look away from that pretty face, and Kris is just..Kris lol He’s hot in his own way, you know?
Anyways, now the thing is about the EXO fandom is that A LOT of people like to ship the members with each other. Don’t get me wrong, I do that too lol, but as a fun and fangirly way. BUt then there are some people who literally make it sound like it’s “Breaking news”, if that makes any sense. So I became an Exotic not too long ago, maybe in the beginning of January 2014. When i became one, a lot of people were talking about “HunHan” and “XiuHan”. Of course being the newbie here, i was like, “is that a person?” “what is a HunHan?” I keep seeing those things everywhere! It dawned to me that it was a name for a pairing. DUH. So now that I had more info and exposure to EXO, i realized a lot of people like to ship Luhan with Sehun or Xiumin.
Now, because one of my biases is Luhan I was delighted to hear that he was a popular person to pair up with. I was happy that Luhan was playful and acting cute towards the other two members in fancams, concerts and other stuffs. But as time went on, Xiuhan has become extremely popular. On tumblr, I see pics of the two doing more stuff together, like walking off somewhere or going to get something to eat together and whatnot.
Let me put it out there. I am NOT agaisnt Xiuhan. Let me repeat, I AM NOT AGAINST XIUHAN (or whatever pairing you decided to plop Luhan into). I actually adore Luhan and Xiumin togeher, and I have nothing against Xiumin either, he’s actually kinda cute. BUT…the thing that’s bothering me is that other fans make it sound like there actually dating. You know, people make a bunch of posts, making it sound like that there an actual couple and such. LIke the disclaimer in the beginning of the post, I am also NOT a homophobic. So why does this relate to Xiuhan? Well the fact that some people make it sound like there actually Gay.
I honestly believe, Luhan is not gay. Despite that pretty face and gorgeous smile…really, I don’t think he is. He is quite manly lol (and no I don’t mean Gay guys can’t be manly ) and he just…I don’t know he kind of gives off a “Straight” feel…if thats makes sense.. And Xiumin, the same thing. My guy friend always backhugs other guy friends and occasionally slips his arms around other guys..but guess what, he straight as a stick. I keep seeing some people would post a bunch of gifs and pictures to prove that Xiuhan is “real”. And also this is kinda off topic, but i see fanwars between “Xiuhan” vs. “Hunhan”…I mean seriously? It’s really dumb.
Anywho, I know it’s selfish of me to think and hope that Luhan is straight, but if he was straight, I would (and many other gals out there) would have at least 0.000000000001% that could meet him and have that chance with him. Because whereas if he was gay..it would be 0%. You see where I’m getting at?
I have no problems with Gays whatsoever, its just other people making it sound like they are, frankly, it kind of ruins the whole fandom in my opinion. I don’t mind people writing fics about them and whatnot or talking about how cute Luhan is when he held Xiumin’s hand. It’s the fact that some people would try to go and prove that they are gay. That’s the thing that really pisses me off. I mean, you don’t know them, you don’t know what they are thinking of so how can you judge them based off of what you see in those videos. I’m not saying I know them either, but it’s just people who just go on and on about it that really gets on my nerves.
Anyways, this is my opinion with this whole situation and all. This also applies with other pairings in EXO, but those ones don’t bother me as much. That is all..I don’t know if other people agree with me or not, but this is my opinion. Anywho..till next time!